Welcome. I’m Daniel Burgess, and for over 25 years I’ve been studying, testing, and living what actually creates lasting intimacy — first as a student of every marriage book I could get my hands on, and then as a therapist sitting with hundreds of couples who had already tried everything.
This course is different from what you’ve likely tried before, and I’ll be honest with you about why in the very first lesson. For now, just know this: you are not here because you failed. You’re here because most of what’s out there was never designed to reach the actual problem.
Here’s what one couple wrote to me:
“Daniel, we spent thousands on individual and couples counseling and nearly a decade fighting to save our marriage. We learned every marriage skill and communication tool out there. It would seem to work for a while, but eventually the effectiveness would wear off. It was a vicious cycle of highs and lows. But in just a few weeks you changed that cycle in our marriage. For the first time, we feel safe, we feel loved, and we have moved from managing our relationship to connecting and healing.” — C.M. & M.M.
That shift — from managing your relationship to connecting in it — is what this course is for.
Key takeaways
- This course works on the individual first, the relationship second — that’s the point, not a limitation.
- You haven’t failed; the tools you were given were aimed at the wrong target.
- Next: how the course actually works, and what it asks of you.
Would you like to continue with the course?
The course is $197 once for permanent access to ten modules and guided exercises. Complete is $349 once for the course plus a non-renewing membership year, saving $38 versus buying separately. Member essays and five forums are available now; Q&A, recordings, and premium audio are planned and not yet available. Review the full curriculum before purchasing.