Everything here is open to anyone, anywhere. You don’t need to live in a state where I’m licensed, and none of it requires a therapy appointment.
There are really only two things for sale — a course you work through on your own, and a membership where the conversation keeps going. The rest is just how you’d like to pay for them.
Improving Intimacy: The Course — $197
Ten modules, 46 lessons and eight guided exercises, with progress tracking and a certificate at the end. Entirely private — nobody sees your progress but you, and there is nothing to post. A one-time purchase you keep permanently.
You can read the full curriculum lesson by lesson before deciding.
The Inner Circle — from $19 a month
Members-only essays written with real clinical depth, and five private forums where you can ask the question you’ve been carrying under a name of your choosing. Nothing posted there is public or indexed by search engines. The monthly live Q&A and premium podcast feed open during the founding period.
Three ways to pay — identical access in all three.
| Monthly | Annual | One-Year Pass | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Price | $19 / month | $190 / year | $190 once |
| Renews automatically | Yes | Yes | No |
| Best if | You want to try it without committing a year | You know you’re staying and want two months free | You never want a recurring charge — or it’s a gift |
Improving Intimacy Complete — $349
The full course, yours for good, plus twelve months in the Inner Circle — one payment of $349, nothing recurring. If you were going to buy the course anyway at $197, this puts the year of membership at $152 instead of $190. When the twelve months are up nothing renews on its own; you decide then whether to carry on monthly.
Not sure which?
The course if you want a defined path with a beginning and an end, you’d rather work privately, or you’re doing this without a partner’s participation. The Inner Circle if what you actually need is somewhere to ask. Complete if you want both and would rather not think about it again for a year.
Neither, for now, if money is tight. The blog and the public podcast are substantial and free, and they always will be. Compare everything side by side →
None of this is therapy, and buying it does not create a therapeutic relationship between us. If you’re looking for therapy, that’s here — available by telehealth to clients in California and Utah. If you’re in crisis, please reach a licensed provider in your area, or call or text 988 in the US.