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  • Marital Myth Of Communication

    Marital Myth Of Communication

    Marital Myth of Communication: It’s never about communication. My hope in this piece is to address a mistaken idea that if an individual (or both) in a relationship will improve their “communication skills” they will save and improve their marriage. It’s my belief that this idea has become popular among both therapists and couples because…

  • Your Writing Sucks

    Your Writing Sucks

    I attract grammar Nazis like moths to a fire. I have been accused of abusing my positions in the church to publicize my ideas, I have been accused of misleading others from the prophets, I have been accused teaching false doctrine, and I have been criticized for my desire to write a book on marriage.…

  • Repost On Modesty

    Repost On Modesty

    “[Modesty] is a condition of the heart. It is an outward manifestation of an inner knowledge and commitment. It is an expression that we understand our identity as daughters of God.” —Elaine S. Dalton (Young Women General President, 2008-2013) The “For Strength of Youth” pamphlet that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints has…

  • A [Not So] Better Way To Say Sorry

    A [Not So] Better Way To Say Sorry

    “Now I rejoice, not that ye were made sorry, but that ye sorrowed to repentance: for ye were made sorry after a godly manner, that ye might receive damage by us in nothing. For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.” (2 Cor.…

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